I longed for the relationships you see in the movies. I wanted to feel seen, protected, safe, happy, sexy- the whole bit.  But the evidence that I had for a healthy relationship was pretty much non-existent. Apart from leaving the abusive relationship I mentioned above, my track record was on again, off again, unhealthy relationships that involved lots of cheating and lying. I had even thought to myself that maybe I WAS THE TOXIC ONE! I knew I had to change something.

Here I was, 29 years old with no idea how I was going to be in a healthy relationship. But I knew I had to start somewhere. And so began the year 2020- a fresh new beginning where I could focus on myself: my mindset, my frequency and my actions to see what I preferred and what I did not.

What I can tell you now, is that this eBook is a compilation of everything that I have learned in my dating career- which I am so overjoyed to say that career is over. Through the actions that I implemented in my book, your girl got herself a Husband- and not just a guy I settled for. Someone who is everything I wanted: safe, secure, loving, fun, and most importantly: HEALTHY.

And as a former party girl- I thought a healthy relationship would be BORING! That could not be further from the truth!

Sister, when you are held in a safe container where you feel free to be exactly as you are without consequence, without walking on eggshells... MAGIC HAPPENS. You BLOOM.

My goal was never marriage. It was never a deal breaker for me. But once I aligned to who I was truly meant to be with, marriage was the next natural soul step. And I didn't have to wait years for a proposal. We were 3 months into dating when he popped the question.

So get ready, because if I can land a husband, SO CAN YOU (LOL).